Things are real when we take them from our brains and our hearts and share them with the world. Sometimes those things are hurtful, sad, happy, angry, anxious, or vulnerable. But that doesn’t make them any less valid or any less real. It’s not up to you to define that my pain is not real. It’s not my place to tell you that what I said didn’t, in fact, hurt you. To a girl so convinced she knows what’s hiding under her bed, it feels very real that the boogieman will grab her as she gets up. To the boy who gets picked on, his imaginary friend who protects him is the only thing that keeps him from crying. To the first time teacher standing in front of a class of students waiting for her to speak, the anxious feeling creeping up her hands is real.
I don’t know about you, but I’d rather live life under the assumption that others are creating their own truths and living a real and authentic life than to guard my truths with boogiemen.
You bring meaning to the word real. No one else.